When you wake up each day choosing to be angry, bitter, mad at the world , and choosing to play the role of the victim in everything, all you do is push people away from you. People stop calling you. They don’t want to be around you or socialize with you. They go to gatherings without you, or don’t invite you. What you have done is to create a very lonely existence for yourself. Why would anyone choose to live like that. Even if you’re not the quintessential social butterfly, at least choose to be social.