Category Archives: Self Worth

Don’t view yourself through the words of others

Your value, your self worth, your image of yourself should be determined only by yourself.  Do not ever let the views or words of others determine how you feel about yourself.  Only you have the right to do that.  Never forget how absolutely amazing you are.  Your beauty radiates from the inside out.  Your quirkiness is what makes you so unique and beautiful.  Never forget that.  Go ahead.  Travel to the beat of your own drummer.  Now that’s an amazing beat.


Treat yourself like a friend

You must treat yourself equally as well, if not better than you treat your friends.  Always be a friend to yourself.  Do not say hurtful or mean things to or about yourself, just as you would never say those things to or about your friends.  You need to talk yourself up and be proud of you are and what you’ve accomplished.  And if you believe, others in turn will believe as well.  Go ahead.  Be proud.  Get your positive self worth on.  You deserve it.


Don’t compromise who you are for anyone

Why would you ever want to be someone you’re not.  Who you are is what makes you beautiful.  If some people can’t see the beauty in you for who you are, then you just need to let them go.  You don’t need them in your life.  Those are the people that are toxic and will just bring you down, because in their mind you are not good enough for them.  That’s why they try and change you.  Keep the ones that love you for exactly who you are and embrace you and lift you up for it.  You’re worth it.  Love yourself for who you are and walk tall and proud.


Void yourself of toxic people

When it comes to the relationships in your life it is so critical that they are not toxic in nature.  It doesn’t matter the nature of the relationship.  Whether it be friend, co worker, lover, spouse significant other or anything else, your relationships must be healthy or they will drag you down.  Keep yourself clear of toxic people.  You owe it to yourself.


You allow your treatment

People will treat you exactly how you allow them to treat you.  If you don’t want to be treated like you’re less than, put a stop to it.  If you don’t like it when people talk down to you, then stand up to them.  You don’t like the way people treat you, let them know their treatment of you is unacceptable.  If you don’t speak up and educate others as to how it’s appropriate to treat you, then people will think it’s okay to walk all over you…and they will.  You have the power.  Put a stop to it now., or prepare to be walked all over.


You should be your best friend

You should always, always be your first and best friend.  You live in your skin every single day.   You wake up in your skin, shower in your skin, go to work in your skin, work out in your skin, relax in your skin, and so much more,  The point is, you spend more time with yourself then anyone else.  So get to know yourself well, and become your very own best friend.  You can’t like others until you like yourself.  You can’t truly love another until you love yourself.  Go ahead.  The next time someone asks you who your best friend is, answer with,  “I am my own best friend.”


Believe that you are

We need to believe in our own beauty from the inside out.  We have beautiful souls and beautiful hearts.  So why then do we doubt ourselves and our own beauty when people pay us a compliment or compliments.  They pay us that compliment because they see that in us.  It’s time that we too believe in ourselves and believe the positive compliments that people pay us.  You are beautiful.  Believe it.  It’s true.


You are worthy

You have no idea how many people love and depend you every day.  People typically are bad about communicating things like that.  Just know that if you leave here it would be the saddest day ever for those that know and love you.  Know that you are loved.  Know that you are beautiful.  Know that you make a difference every day that you walk the earth.  If you’re in pain.  Reach out.  Talk and get help.  Take the necessary steps to heal and walk the planet earth for the rest of your days.  You my friends truly are a blessing.


Just do you

Why be anyone else?  Why be a copycat?  You’re beautiful, individual and original.  Living a life or being what others want you to be will make them happy, but will make you miserable.  Follow your dreams.  Live your life.  Be you.  Those that are willing to accept you for the beauty that you possess in your own way will be there and support you.  Those that don’e can be expunged.  You don’t need people bringing you down because you don’t conform to what they want.  Go ahead.  Be your beautiful self.


Some will, some won’t, so what

You can never really control what people think of you.  But you absolutely can control how people treat you.  People will treat you as you demand they treat you.  In other words, if you let people treat you with disrespect, they then believe, that you don’t care how they treat you and they will treat you how they please until you stand up to them.  It’s up to you to stand up and say “Hey, I’m better than that and I will not be treated in that way.  You will treat me with respect.”  Once you have established how you want to be treated, not only will you be treated with more respect, but you will also have gained the respect of others for standing up for yourself.