Do not ever let the things that happen to you define who you are, or who you become as a person. Bad things happen to all of us. Even the best of us. Bad things don’t make us bad people and should not define us. We are inherently good. Sometimes we just need to remind ourselves of this. Sometimes people we don’t even know will judge us or talk about us when things happen. Don’t let the words of people who don’t know us change the way we look at ourselves. You rock.